Santa Cruz Queer Men organizes monthly Fab Friday events where gay, bi, and trans men can gather to make friends, form relationships, and have fun. Events are generally on the last Friday of the month.

No membership is required. All you need to do is show up!

Donations always accepted for running future events.

UPCOMING EVENTS

Sexy Santa and Ugly Sweater Social at The Neighbors Pub

Date: Friday, December 5, 2025

Time: 8pm - 12am

Location: The Neighbors Pub
711 Pacific Avenue, Santa Cruz

Suggested donation at the door: $10-$100. Cash Bar.

Join us at the Neighbors Pub on Pacific Avenue, Santa Cruz! Wearing of Sexy Santa and Ugly Sweaters is optional.

From The Neighbors Pub Instagram site:

The Neighbor’s Birthday Party ✨
Friday, December 5th

Happy Hour 🥂
4pm - 7pm

Birthday Party 🎂
8pm - 12am

We opened the doors to the brick-and-mortar location a whole year ago! It’s been a wild ride. Come out and party with us! 🎂🌈✨

Be dazzled by drag + burlesque performances by @gallogallina @selinadevestige @therealshizaminnelli and @wildishfrankie throughout the night

Music by @djnolacruz

PLUS what might be the very first QUEER CAKE EATING CONTEST 🍰
The contest starts at 9:30pm on the back patio. Prizes will be awarded. Sign up starts on Thursday at theneighborspub.org/birthday

Suggested donation $5 - $20 for entry. No one will be turned away for lack of funds. Your presence is the best birthday present! 💕